Ron White's Ezine
April 4, 2007
Issue 40

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Welcome!

It was GREAT seeing so many of you in Dallas last week at the Jim Rohn 2 Day Event! Now I am back in North Carolina promoting my own 2 Day event June 4th and 5th. It will be an intense sales training and memory training workshop. I hope to see you there as well!

How is North Carolina you ask?... (Beach Boys instrumental here) 'Let's go surfing now... Everybody's learning how... Come on an safari with me.....' Yep, a Texas guy who has only ridden horses and mechanical bulls is now trying his hand at surfing. Let me tell you what...if you are in need of being humbled, this is the sport for you! But because I believe you can always learn something from whatever situations life presents, I have picked up some valuable lessons--life lessons--from surfing. Here they are:

1. To surf you have to paddle out to deep enough water to catch a wave. LESSON - In life you will most likely NOT catch a wave of success by standing where you are. Instead success is caught by working to get to a point where you can have a possibility to catch a wave of success.

2. When paddling out, waves will try to knock you back and off your board. To keep this from happening lay flat on your board, duck your head down, push the nose of the board down and dive into the wave with your board. LESSON - In life obstacles will be there to knock you down and back. You must dive into the obstacles... they can't be avoided.

3. It certainly helps to get advice from other surfers. LESSON - In life get a mentor who has achieved success and ask them how (Suggestion - when surfing don't use the word 'mentor'. It is not 'cool' and you will certainly be deemed the geek of the group).

4. You can't surf if you are tense... relax. LESSON - RELAX!!!

5. In order to stay on your board you must be balanced. LESSON - Make sure your life is balanced... work, play, health, mental and spiritual.

6. When you do finally catch a wave the tendency is to lean back but this will only result in a fall. Lean forward and you will keep your balance. LESSON - In life, often the natural reaction is to pull back or relax after success, but the only way to keep momentum is to lean forward and keep pressing on towards more success.

7. You are not going to catch a wave on your first try. It is hard... hard... hard for a beginner. LESSON - In life, don't give up.

Surfing is fun and so is success - but both take work. The payoff in surfing is a 5-10 second wave to ride (that I have yet to experience) and in life it can be much more. So I am off to catch a wave, and here is wishing you a wave of success!

Go for More this Week!
Ron White

PS After reading my welcome note, you're probably saying, "Hey, this Ron White is not just a 'memory guy! He's got skills beyond just the memory stuff." Well, I took Jim Rohn's advice--develop multiple skills--to heart that he talked about at the 2 day event! In fact, Monday was the beginning of baseball season and many of you know what a HUGE fan I am! So to kick off the 2007 baseball season, I'm offering you, my fellow baseball fans, my book titled, 22 Lessons from Baseball (yep, another skill--writing). So if you are a baseball fan, know baseball fans or just want to buy a really cool book to give out, then check out the details below (see #4 below)! Oh, and just in case I haven't said it lately... THANK YOU for reading!  

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In This Issue.....

1. Robert Frost and Bobby Thigpen by Ron White
2.
Quotes of the Week
3. Stay Focused on the Big Picture by Harvey Mackay
4. Just in Time for Spring!
5. My Next Memory AND Sales Seminar will be June 4-5, 2007 in North Carolina!
6. More Information

 

1. Robert Frost and Bobby Thigpen (Excerpted From 22 Success Lessons From Baseball By Ron White)

Bobby Thigpen spent most of his career with the Chicago White Sox and had a good baseball career. However, I am sure that it's a little known fact that he also fancied himself as somewhat of a poet. That's right... a poet. The man who the White Sox looked to in the ninth to mow down batters could have been the next Robert Frost.

Actually, that may be an exaggeration. His poetry most likely would not have received an 'A' in any Junior High English class. Thigpen, after his first full year in the Major Leagues, posted a 7 and 5 record with 16 saves and an ERA of 2.70. But, he did sense that the possibility of not being signed was real. He sent this short poem to White Sox chairman Jerry Reinsdorf:

As I sit at home this off-season,
I wonder what the hell is the reason,
Why the club wants to be unfair,
Underpaying a player who can produce and care.

Reinsdorf could roll with the punches and promptly responded with some rhymes of his own.

I hope you are a really good pitcher,
Because as a poet you will never get richer;
If you are not pitching this year,
I will be sad but won't fear;
Though you may be one of the best,
There's always someone among the rest.

At this point it was getting fun. And Thigpen couldn't resist but to respond with more poetry of his own. Thigpen sent this gem to his fellow poet:

It is true that my potential as a poet is very small,
But, in the ninth who do you want to have the ball?
You say there will always be someone among the rest,
But, who do you want, them or the best?

Thigpen didn't get his salary doubled like he wanted. But, he did get signed and had a nice career. Someone once said that, 'Life is too serious to be taken seriously.' Thigpen is a man who had an unconventional and fun approach to a very serious issue, such as his salary. How often in business and life do you make a serious situation only more serious by being unnecessarily stoic. If we can learn any lesson from Thigpen it would be to lighten up and have some fun.

Ron White



This article is excerpted from Ron White's 22 Success Lessons from Baseball. By studying baseball, you can learn a lot about life, success and failure. This book is a collection of short lessons that our national pastime can teach us if we let it. To learn more or to purchase this entertaining, insightful book, scroll down to #4 below or go to http://ronwhite.yoursuccessstore.com or call 877-929-0439.
 

 

2. Quotes of The Week

BASEBALL

Man may penetrate the outer reaches of the universe, he may solve the very secret of eternity itself but for me, the ultimate human experience is to witness the flawless execution of the hit-and-run. -- Branch Rickey

I'm not an athlete. I'm a professional baseball player. -- John Kruk

It took me seventeen years to get three thousand hits in baseball. I did it in one afternoon on the golf course. -- Hank Aaron

You're probably not a member of a major league baseball team, your errors, unless they are truly spectacular, don't show up in the morning paper. -- Jane Goodsell

He could speak in eight languages, but he couldn't hit in any of them. -- Ted Lyons, on Moe Berg

I see great things in baseball. It's our game -- the American game. It will take our people out of doors, fill them with oxygen, give them a larger physical stoicism. Tend to relieve us from being a nervous, dyspeptic set. Repair those losses, and be a blessing to us. -- Walt Whitman

If a tie is like kissing your sister, losing is like kissing your grandmother with her teeth out. -- George Brett

If horses can't eat it, I won't play on it. -- Dick Allen

I don't mind catching your fastball at all. Naturally, I'd want to have a glove on in case you might be having an especially good day. -- Gene Green, to pitcher Jim Brosnan

If a woman has to choose between catching a fly ball and saving infant's life, she will choose to save the infant's life without even considering if there is a man on base. -- Dave Barry

Baseball is a lot like the Army, there aren't many individuals. About the only difference is that baseball players get to stay in nice hotels instead of barracks. -- Bill Lee

Baseball is the only field of endeavor where a man can succeed three times out of ten and be considered a good performer. -- Ted Williams





3. Stay Focused on the Big Picture by Harvey Mackay

A reader of this column sent me an email recently, thanking me for a column I had written on getting outside the box. She then told me how she had lost focus for a while, but had turned things around. She encouraged me to write a column on staying focused.

I immediately thought of my varsity golfing days at the University of Minnesota many years ago. Back then The Saint Paul Open was one of the top tournaments on the men's professional golf circuit. Prior to the tournament, I had a chance to meet Gary Player when he was taking a lesson from our team coach, Les Bolstad. Later that evening I went to dinner with the world's future #1 player when he was still an unknown.

The following day at The Saint Paul Open, I saw Gary after he teed off the first hole and ran up to him to say hi. I wanted to tell him what a great time I had the night before. His steely eyes remained focused on the fairway ahead and he never broke stride. "Harvey, please don't talk to me. I must concentrate. I will see you when I'm finished."

I remember how devastated I felt, but I learned a valuable lesson on focus. Many years later when he was world famous, my wife, Carol Ann, and I ran into Gary and his wife in South Africa. I reintroduced myself and reminded him of what happened on the golf course. Gary's wife told me, "Don't feel bad. He doesn't even talk to me on the golf course."

That's the focus that it takes to do your best. If you have the ability to focus fully on the task at hand, and shut out everything else, you can accomplish amazing things.

Arnold Palmer, another golfing legend, recalled a tough lesson he learned about focus in Carol Mann's book "The 19th Hole":

"It was the final hole of the 1961 Masters tournament, and I had a one-stroke lead and had just hit a very satisfying tee shot. I felt I was in pretty good shape. As I approached my ball, I saw an old friend standing at the edge of the gallery. He motioned me over, stuck out his hand and said, "Congratulations." I took his hand and shook it, but as soon as I did, I knew I had lost my focus. On my next two shots, I hit the ball into a sand trap, then put it over the edge of the green. I missed a putt and lost the Masters. You don't forget a mistake like that; you just learn from it and become determined that you will never do that again." Trust me, your friends will understand!

A response Babe Ruth once gave to a reporter sticks in my mind. "How is it," the Babe was asked, "that you always come through in the clutch? How is it you can come up to bat in the bottom of the 9th, in a key game with the score tied, with thousands of fans screaming in the stadium, with millions listening on the radio, the entire game on the line and deliver the game winning hit?" His answer, "I don't know. I just keep my eye on the ball."

In other words… Focus.

How many times have you heard an athlete talk about focus? It's a topic I also hear about frequently in business. The most common complaints?

Too many irons in the fire. Too many projects spinning at one time. Too many interruptions. Too many phone calls. Too many emails. Too many things to do. Too little time.

The late Peter Drucker, management consultant and author, observed, "When you have 186 objectives nothing gets done. I always ask, 'What's the one thing you want to do?' In Mexico they call me Senor Una Cosa." (translation: one thing)

Decide what's most important. Make a list every day or every week and prioritize your activities. Scale back the amount of time you spend on meetings; they can be the biggest time-wasters of all. Learn to delegate, and make sure all members of your team follow through on assigned tasks.

Set aside a specific time of day to return phone calls and emails, and keep distractions to a minimum. In other words, set rules about how others use your time. And if you're not the boss, work with your supervisor to make sure you agree on priorities.

Stay focused as best you can, and don't let things happen to you - not when you can make things happen.

Mackay's Moral: The person who is everywhere is nowhere.


This article is by Harvey Mackay. Harvey Mackay is an internationally recognized speaker and author. To order Harvey Mackay's "Outsell, Outmanage, Outmotivate & Outnegotiate Your Competition" as an Individual Set (contains one DVD and one CD of the speakers 'live' performance) or to view and learn more about The Complete Ultimate Collection for Entrepreneurs and Sales Professionals -- including Jim Rohn, Jeffrey Gitomer, Brian Tracy, Connie Podesta, Stephen Covey, Les Brown, Tom Hopkins and More! go to http://dvdset.yoursuccessstore.com?kbid=2700 or call 877-929-0439.






 4. Just in Time for Spring!  
 

Ron White's 22 Success Lessons From Baseball
Now available in Paperback at very special pricing!

By studying baseball, you can learn a lot about life, success and failure. This book is a collection of short lessons that our national pastime can teach us if we let it.

Ron, I Love baseball, and the book that you written is one of the greatest books I have read! Thank You for all the stories, wisdom, and inspiration. You're a true man, and in lesson 16 I would place you on the same rung with Johnny Oates. THANK YOU! -- Catherine D.

Retail Price - $12.95

Special Offer - $9.00 (or see special quantity discounts for multiple copies)

To learn more or to purchase Ron White's 22 Success Lessons from Baseball go to http://ronwhite.yoursuccessstore.com or call 877-929-0439.


 

5. My Next Memory AND Sales Seminar will be June 4-5, 2007 in North Carolina!

This is a new format for me AND I am REALLY excited!! This seminar will NOT just be a memory seminar. It will be sales training in the morning 3 hours each morning for a total of 6 hours. The memory training will be 3.5 hours each afternoon (or evening) for a total of 7 hours.

Dates: Monday, June 4 and Tuesday, June 5, 2007

Where: Shell Island Resort
2700 North Lumina Avenue
Wrightsville Beach, NC 28480
910-256-8656
http://www.shellisland.com


When: 8:30 am - 11:30 am Session: The Proven System For Success In Sales

11:45 am - 12:45 pm: Lunch (for Gold Members - Those who've purchased a ticket to attend both the memory and sales training class -- at a discount!!)

1:00 pm - 5:00 pm Session: Memory Training


Regular Admission - $249* (Value $349)
* Students 10-22 are welcome to attend the memory session for free (no free students in sales seminar)

Special Offer! Attend both the Proven Systems for Success in Sales and Ron White's Memory Workshop for a special price!! For more information and to view the special pricing go to: http://seminar.yoursuccessstore.com or call 877-929-0439.
 



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